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LGBTQIA+ Therapy

In Wollongong and Online

Turn the struggle of self-acceptance and self doubt into the freedom of self-expression and self love.

Do you feel misunderstood or isolated because of your LGBTQIA+ identity?

Maybe you’ve reached a breaking point in expressing your identity, feeling pressured to conform rather than celebrating who you truly are. Or perhaps societal norms are straining your relationships, leaving you and your loved ones in a cycle of misunderstanding and disconnect. You may be struggling with the challenges of transitioning, finding daily activities overwhelming as you navigate your path. Or simply the weight of not being seen for who you are is so heavy that it’s hard to face the day. Perhaps you’re feeling isolated, unheard, and exhausted from having to defend your true self.

The struggles you face are not isolated — you've noticed how they intricately weave through every aspect of your daily life

Your relationships may feel strained or misunderstood, turning social interactions that once brought comfort into daunting experiences. The ease of connecting with others might feel distant, leaving you isolated or out of place in social gatherings that used to be a refuge. The sense of belonging you once enjoyed may now seem elusive, making it harder to engage with those around you.

At work, interactions are becoming more challenging, and decisions that once felt simple now seem overwhelmingly complex. The pressures of daily tasks and workplace dynamics may heighten your stress, causing you to second-guess your actions and struggle with maintaining your usual level of performance. This growing difficulty in navigating professional responsibilities can add to your overall sense of unease.

Your personal well-being is likely affected, with your self-view clouded by doubt and daily joys overshadowed by the stress of not living authentically. Each morning might bring a reminder of the internal struggles you face, as you grapple with being true to yourself in a world that feels increasingly difficult to navigate. This ongoing challenge can make it harder to find the joy and fulfillment that once came more naturally.

The challenges and isolation you’re experiencing extend beyond mere misunderstandings; they reflect deeper conflicts within your own identity and in your interactions with others, affecting your ability to live authentically and connect genuinely. Recognizing these struggles is a vital first step toward embracing your true self and enhancing your relationships. This journey will empower you to overcome societal expectations and personal insecurities, enabling you to experience the acceptance and belonging that define a fulfilling life.

LGBTQIA+ Therapy can help.

It may feel impossible now, but you can find peace with your identity. You can build meaningful and supportive relationships. You can live authentically and proudly. And I can help you get there.

LGBTQIA+ Therapy helps you do 3 things:

Identify the root of your struggles:

 

Whether they stem from internal conflicts about your identity or external pressures from societal norms.

Enhance your relationship dynamics:

 

Understanding how you and others relate can transform your interactions and increase your sense of belonging.

Develop resilience and coping strategies:

 

Learn the tools that will help you navigate challenges confidently, so you can move forward in life with strength and self-assurance.

So what does LGBTQIA+ therapy look like?​

I’ll guide you through this process, tailoring each step to your unique needs. My approach to LGBTQIA+ Counseling is rooted in personal insight and empathy: empowering you to celebrate your true self. As a bisexual individual, I understand the complexities of identity and societal pressure. Together, we’ll work towards a life where you feel seen, accepted, and vibrant.

Beyond the Binary: How Alex Discovered and Embraced Their True Self

Alex initially sought therapy to address anxiety and self-esteem issues related to their queer identity. Although out as queer to close friends, Alex still struggled with fully embracing themselves. As therapy progressed, Alex began to explore deeper questions about their gender identity. Through introspection and guided discussions, they realised that the binary gender concept didn’t align with their true self. This revelation led to Alex identifying as non-binary, adding another layer to their journey of self-discovery. The realisation was both liberating and daunting, as Alex now faced the prospect of coming out again, this time as non-binary. They grappled with fears of misunderstanding, rejection, and the exhaustion of having to explain their identity repeatedly.

In therapy, Alex worked on building the courage to live authentically as their non-binary self. They developed strategies for communicating their identity to others, setting boundaries, and dealing with potential negative reactions. The process was challenging – some friends and family members struggled to understand, while others were immediately supportive. At work, Alex navigated the complexities of being out in a professional setting, including conversations about pronouns and gendered language. As therapy continued, Alex made significant strides in their personal growth. They became increasingly comfortable sharing their pronouns and using their preferred name instead of their deadname. 

Alex found the confidence to correct people without feeling guilty or anxious, recognising that asserting their identity was an act of self-respect.This newfound assurance extended to all areas of their life – personal relationships, professional settings, and even casual interactions. By the end of therapy, Alex felt a profound sense of alignment with their true self. While acknowledging that the journey isn’t always easy, they felt more comfortable in their own skin than ever before. Alex’s ability to live authentically as their non-binary self brought a deep sense of peace and contentment, allowing them to form more genuine connections with others and approach life with renewed confidence.

If you’re navigating the complexities of gender identity, sexuality, or coming out, you don’t have to do it alone. At Intuitive Connection Counselling, we provide a safe, affirming space to explore your true self. Schedule a session today and take the first step towards living authentically.

Disclaimer: The stories presented here are based on real therapeutic experiences but have been de-identified to protect client privacy. These examples reflect actual therapeutic journeys at Intuitive Connection Counselling, offering insight into what therapy can look like and the progress that’s possible.

You don’t have to live life feeling invisible and misunderstood.
I can help you get there.

Not ready to book yet? Let's have a quick chat about your unique needs and goals.

The Living Out Loud Launchpad is for LGBTQIA+ individuals ready to blast off into a life of authenticity, self-love, and empowerment. 

 

In this 15-minute ignition sequence, you’ll:

  • Share your story in a safe space because your experiences deserve to be heard and validated.
  • Feel truly seen and affirmed in all aspects of your identity, no masks required.
  • Explore your goals and dreams in an environment of unconditional support and understanding.

So you can orbit confidently in your authentic space, form constellation-strong connections, and shine your brightest in the universe of you. Ready to launch into a life where you’re free to be unapologetically you? Book your complimentary Living Out Loud Launchpad session by clicking here to start your countdown to authenticity.


Welcome to Mission Control for your journey of self-discovery and celebration! Let’s prepare for liftoff into a life where you can live out loud and proud.

Frequently Asked Questions

A: LGBTQIA+ therapy sessions are tailored to provide a safe, affirming space where you can explore your identity and experiences without judgment. Every session is unique, but often includes a mix of conversation, therapeutic exercises, and sometimes creative methods like art or writing to help you express yourself in different ways. We’ll focus on understanding your personal journey, addressing any challenges related to your identity, relationships, and societal interactions. The goal is always to help you feel more empowered and supported in your daily life.

A: The length of time you spend in therapy truly depends on your individual needs and goals. Some people find that a few months of therapy helps them to navigate specific issues, while others may choose to engage in therapy for longer periods to explore deeper personal growth and development. During our initial sessions, we’ll discuss what you hope to achieve and periodically review our progress, adjusting as needed to ensure therapy is beneficial and supportive for you.

A: While no therapy can guarantee specific results, LGBTQIA+ therapy is designed to address the unique challenges and experiences of the LGBTQIA+ community. It works best for those who are seeking to understand and embrace their identity, improve their relationships, and enhance their overall well-being in a supportive and non-judgmental environment. During our sessions, we will explore your specific needs and tailor our approach accordingly. By committing to the process and engaging actively, you increase the likelihood of seeing positive changes and outcomes.

A: Getting started is simple. You can reach out via phone on 0489901504, email, or through my website to schedule an initial consultation. This first conversation is a chance for us to get to know each other, discuss what brings you to therapy, and how I can help. I’ll answer any questions you have and we’ll talk about what you hope to achieve. From there, we’ll schedule our first session and begin the journey towards a stronger, more connected relationship.